its time for some knowledge...
why do we get angry?...simply because something does not go the way WE want it to...wats d remedy ?...do not expect the universe to follow UR rules :)
what do we do when someone errs?...get angry at him/her !
what do we do when we make a mistake?...blame ourselves !
who is d idiot ?...who lost his peace of mind ???
whenever a mistake is made, just seperate the event from anyone...
mistake is nobody's...neither mine, nor his/hers :)
see the mistake as just an event and take up the responsibility t rectify it !
but how do you do this?...simple, when someone else errs...just think carefully and realise that "even I have a share in the mistake...isn't it?"...n share d responsibility(not the guilt!)...
break the chain of blaming...blaming others leads to anger,
blaming yourself leads to guilt !
similarly, for qualities...when U see a good quality in the other, acknowledge it...dont compare yourself...feel that even U are a part of it...n see how jealousy flies miles away !
dont keep chanting: "hes a good cook, I'm not!"
"she sings well, I dont!"
"he is so handsome, I'm not!"
this way you can never be satisfied...just realise what good qualities I have and be grateful for getting them...U will always be happy !
being grateful to Guruji...Jai GuruDev !
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good one... :)
ReplyDeleteblaming others leads to anger,
ReplyDeleteblaming yourself leads to guilt !
So true! keep writing daddya.. its nice to read your posts!
Thank you...
ReplyDeletehey Gubby, your first post was awesome! In fact, it was your post that inspired me to start blogging...
please blog regularly...I guess its d best way to express what you wont generally...